The Simple Secrets to Success

Being Blissfully Successful

                  

To succeed at any endeavor is in reality not easy.

Yet, it's the reward nature gives for those people who have mastered the art to escape from the gravity of the many sensational and pleasurable moments of distraction, to preserve,  to stick to their true ideals, and follow their chosen path. which takes them to where they really wanted to go in life. 



For a PsyYogi, success is in the state of being. Success is felt in the heart and not in the mind. True success lingers in the heart and once it goes into the mind, ego takes over. disaster looms henceforth.

Real success has to be meaningful inside of us, and must manifest outside of us from within.

Why heart, because the mind is the 'Centre' of one's ego.

Success is like a sprawling tree with deep roots inside the soil.

Real success must be rooted inside our heart strongly, and manifested outside beautifully and fruitfully. - PsyYoga.org

The secret is success isn't complicated either, it's simpler, like all things in nature of value is simpler too, like the water, the wind, the clouds, the rain, the sunshine, all of them is in their simplest and purest format.

What we talk here are rather very simple but has proven to have transformational powers. 

Anything transformational is simpler and easy to understand and practice. 

Only simple things can be consistently practiced, as they cross the procrastination threshold easily. Anything complex and difficult for the normal human brain is bound to fail in the long run.

In the pebble's transformation series, we bring you simpler yet easier ways to comprehend and practice transformational techniques that are very practical and useful.

Speaking of success, it's a sweet and rewarding outcome of the below mentioned qualities.  Success may be complex outcome; but the main two ingredients that leads us towards success are in simple terms are:

(1) Luck.

(2) Brevity and Intelligence

(3) Constancy of purpose and level of sincerity in what we do.

(4) The ability to preserve against all odds with our inner strength and our self-mastery.

Luck

Everything will sprout at the right time automatically for the lucky, and aid their success.

Some people do nothing, yet succeed in life, whilst others, do everything but nothing happens, the invisible factor of luck plays it's role prominently.

No denying here, many modern Guru's shun luck as an important factor for attaining success, but nothing else can explain the phenomenal success that some people achieve with little or no efforts. 

Everything falls in place for them and at the right time as if some celestial blessing.

Even during the conception of life itself, the selection of one, among millions of cells do have some luck involved, the family and circumstances one is born into is not our choice, its plain luck.

From my experience I can tell that one very important factor in the journey of success is definitely luck, no beating around the bush there.

It reminds me of an incident. This happened to my close friend and classmate.

Everything went well, it was on a beautiful Saturday evening when he visited a family, who are in some way, a very distant relative of his and live in another big city. 

He stayed with them overnight, as he needed to attend some important work in that city the following Monday. 

He was all 20, just graduated, well groomed, young and dreamy then.

There, at his far relative place, he meets someone whom he fell for instantly. He met someone very ideally his type, and sensed the same from her too. 

They spoke and laughed the whole of Saturday evening and the whole of Sunday too. They both vibed very well.  One and half days went just like one and half minutes, or he felt that way, he has not met anyone like that his whole life.  I could deduce this from his words back then.

Unfortunately, luck didn't Favor him. Saturday night, he was sleeping alone in his allotted space and he slept well. But Sunday night, he was sleeping alone and had a bad panic attack (which he was prone to, but rare, we had that experience with him in the college hostel some twice in 3 years).

Everyone at their home woke up to the sounds of his gasping for breath and screams, including the girls and her parents too to his embarrassment.  alas! all his dreams shattered at that moment. He was taken as a patient by everyone, especially the girl’s parents, plus, he was too ashamed and guilty to forge ahead thinking that, it may repeat.

Result, he lost the love of his life to bad luck. He repents for it till date, though decades has passed as he ended up marrying a short tempered angry women who never feels happy whatever sacrifices he made for her. Because of his goodness and pure soul, he doesn't morally feel right to split from her or rather lacked the will and support for that.

Though he healed his panic attack issues as he aged, but what he lost is lost forever. Now due to the stress of his married life, he developed many allergies and auto immune conditions that wouldn't allow him to sleep or live in peace.

Nature prefers a happy soul and keeps them warm and smiling, moment failure strikes, emotional issues arise,  nature tries to eliminates that person through a host of diseases that could send him back to the soil. Nature prefers a happy planet, a fit planet.

Another example of luck I wish to mention is about someone I knew very well, it's about a impoverished small girl who was adopted and was brought up by ex-service navy seal, she got access to good education and amenities. When she completed her college education, her dad got her married to an very good man, well educated but with an average financials or professional background. 

After the wedding, her dad hosted the new couple in their mansion house for a fortnight, having a blast with them with so much joy and fun. At the end of the fortnight stay, the last night, her dad unfortunately passed away due to an heart failure. 

This left the girl devasted, but her man stood by her. After mourning and all the event's that followed,  a lawyer walks into their home and declares that the mansion where the girl lived and host of other properties left behind by her dad has been transferred to her through a will which her father had executed a few months ago. 

Now imagine, its play of some forces which has kept this women happy and safe come what may. Now the couple have two children studying at school and they go to the beach every day, drive around, travel a lot and are simply enjoying every day of their life. We could simply say she was lucky at every phase of her life.

We have discussed how luck factors in some people’s lives like a genie, whereas in others, like a demon, we call that bad luck. Anything can happen to that person. Survival itself is a challenge.

So do everything that brings good luck, being a little superstitious in this regard is not underestimated.

Now to the second point in the list,

Brevity and Intelligence

Again Nature doesn't prefer a coward or a fool to be successful. This is very established when we look at human history dotted with trials and turbulations, victories and defeats. Some accidental success is soon lost into the hands of the deserving.

With brevity and by applying intelligence, humans can overcome bad luck and turn around circumstances for themselves and for others. - PsyYoga.org

These are the original and simple thoughts I am putting forth here for your easy understanding.

Show courage in what you do. Be daring. Don't shy away from taking calculated risks that could favor a good life to you. Don't hide under the umbrella of settled life always. Shake up a bit to gain life experiences, After all, what we carry from this world is some experiences and nothing else. Everything else is DUST

Success is a cumulative prize that you receives for all the brevity and intelligence you wieled into the world. - PsyYoga.org

Intelligence is equally needed pre-requisite to flourish and we humans did flourish on this planet Earth due to the intelligence factor compared to all other species. We were able to connect, network, share knowledge, communicate effectively over greater distances and what we couldn't do as compared to other species, we developed means and machinery to overcome it and we excelled at it.

Intelligence at a personal level is not so complex. 

It's simply, in the sense, as I said earlier, everything of value in this Planet is in its simpler form. 

Here by intelligence I mean is,  using every string of your past experience and the experience of others you know into the circumstances you are in and making that circumstances better for you. That simple.

When every action of yours, originating from your intelligence, which in turn is originating from yours and others experience, adds up cumulatively to be called as your success. - PsyYoga.org

Even in difficult situations, remember this, use your most important tools Brevity and Intelligence to combat it, if you use your heart and mind, you could break down emotionally needing counselling. 

That's what I did, in trying times, in most difficult times of my life and most unfortunate phases of my life. You can do that too.

Constancy of purpose and level of sincerity in what we do.

If we are sincere in our purpose and constant at it, with our vision to meet that purpose, work to meet our immediate goals to reach towards that vision, with this, all other things blossom by itself and is taken care of. 

Opportunities open up from nowhere due to the positivity. Confidence eludes in abundance and the thirst for success will soar that will be quenched by sincerity and such success will definitely stand out.

Secondly, coming to point (2) The odds, inner strength and self-mastery.


Now to the second sub point: Inner strength and Self-mastery. 

Again, speaking of one's inner strength

The easiest way to fail is to become a subordinate to our senses, to the sensations of our  senses, called the maya, and by falling prey to it. - PsyYoga.org

The maya and the resulting illusionary intoxications takes us to a level wherein we escape the gravity of reality and we're pushed to lead an imaginary life that's disconnected from our true self, from our true inner spirit. 

This maya or the illusion and the intoxication therein defeat our sincerity in our actions and towards our chosen goal thus failure looms for sure. 

The world revolves around moderation. perfect self-control is hard to adopt but we can master moderation.  - PsyYoga.org

Yes, the world revolves around moderation. The Earth operated at a moderate temperature (some -82 to + 58C) wherein humans have found ways and means to adopt. The wind, rain and sunshine are all in moderation, the beautiful moon light we see at night is in moderation just for us to sleep. 

Moderation is the mantra of Nature - PsyYoga.org

PsyYoga is designed just for that.  Bringing that moderation into your life in all aspects, automatically, instinctively and not forced, since anything forced or implemented through rules wont stay long and anything implemented with manual intervention also will not stay long hence it has to be embedded into the psych and that's when automatically life will become easy for you. This is the fundamental thought and mission the practice of PsyYoga will help you to achieve,

Finding the inner balance is the key. 

The right balance to strike in life is somewhere in between the two extremes of tight self-control and total surrender to the senses. - PsyYoga.org 

Results are thus achieved by those who have mastered this balance and living a life not by completely denouncing the senses but having mastery over them and finding balance.

The key to bliss is in making the power of your senses work for us instead of working against us. - PsyYoga.org 

Success also depends to an extent on the constitution of the individual, their inherent inner strength, their ability to preserve against all odds and stay focused.

Being successful is never an end product; It's work in progress. - PsyYoga.org

The inherent strengths are not the learned ones,  but are already in-built in the individual person. Such people succeed anyway in whatever they undertake.

This uniqueness in them is because of the unique psyche that the person has built over the years through their unique experiences they have gone through in this journey called life.

Mastering to balance oneself in trying times is the true test for the soul. - PsyYoga.org

The ability to preserve against all odds with our inner strength your self-mastery.

Self Mastery through conditioning of our psyche is the core of PsyYoga. 

Yoga is an inward journey.

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This method is extensively explained in the PsyYoga system where the psyche is conditioned so one can come closer in inner strength and success to the person who has an inherent ability to succeed thus help everyone to also experience and manifest success.

If you liked this article and is of help to you, you are whole heartedly invited to be a part of PsyYoga by becoming a PsyYogi and create a positive impact to self, loved ones and society at large.

Happy Days!

 

 

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Krish K. Madembeth

is the founder at PsyYoga.org and Pebbles Transformation.org. Has over two decades of experience in the field of Inner Yoga and Meditation, has formulated the practice of PsyYoga® which is a psychological tool culminating the fifth and sixth limbs of Yoga - the Pratyahara and Dharana to achieve everlasting Bliss. - Follow him on Twitter: @madembeth - Email: krish@psyyoga.org

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